Argument or Flirtatious Debate?!

OK, so I'm having this argument with my husband.....well, its not really an argument, it's more like a smilling, verbal jabbing, me trying to manipulate, kind of cat and mouse game. Anyways, I just lined up a babysitter for the big 15th anniversary going out to eat (which, by the way, pissed off the first babysitter's dad I called who was slow in calling back). I want to go here: http://www.skamania.com/about-skamania.php even though its over an hour's drive away, but good memories abound here as we've stayed the night here years ago, and the food is amazing.....gourmet!!! But nooooooooo...................he doesn't want to drive that far and he has a gift certificate for Applebee's http://www.applebees.com/ . Just kidding, he wouldn't really take me there on such a special night! So now I don't know where we're going, I tried to smooth talk him and use my charm, but I don't think its working!!!! His last words were that he's already made reservations to surprise me and he can't give it away (yes he's done this maybe once but he's bullsh$#^^ing me! I have to confess I never got any housework done like I said I was going to, and now I have to move my A@@ tomorrow 'cause this new babysitter's coming over and I want her to want to come back sometime. So I've got to at least clean my bathrooms, vaccume, clean my wood floors and clean up my kitchen. If I'm a good girl and stay off the computer, this should be no problem. We'll just have to wait and see.......